Monday, November 26, 2012

Post Thanksgiving

It hits me in waves that I live here.  One minute, this all feels perfectly normal, another minute, I find myself (sometimes literally) stopped dead in my tracks wondering how the heck I got here. 
Very, very sad.
It’s strange, because now, all of the things I feel were holding me back from feeling like I “really live here” have been completed.  I have signed a lease for my apartment for a year with the option to stay until 2014, have a bank account, have started making friends, and really feel like I’ve settled into my life here.  Of course, to most Hong Kongers, I’m still the newbie, but I don’t feel new anymore for the most part. 
After the craziness of Thanksgiving, which I can say was the saddest day I can remember having in quite some time, things had to look up.  One of my definite highlights of the past week was going to the apartment of my sweet friend and fellow lover of Downton Abbey, Katie, to watch the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade and eat pancakes on Friday morning.  We have a standing date on Thursdays to watch Downton Abbey together, but since it is now sadly finished for the season, we have concocted other reasons to hang out, which I love, because she is awesome. 

But things got better after the parade.
If you have read any of my previous posts, you will know that the Macy’s Thanksgiving day parade is an integral part of my Thanksgiving experience each year, much to the chagrin of my friends and family members. I truly can’t get going on Thanksgiving Day unless I watch the parade, so imagine my delight when I found out that Katie also loves the parade.  I recorded it on Sara’s DVR, we hooked up their TV to my laptop and were able to watch it via Slingbox.  That moment was worth the $99 I paid for my Slingbox prior to leaving the US.  Neither one of us was in a great mood when I arrived, but by the time the parade was over and Santa had arrived, our spirits were both on the up and up.  One thing I love about living in Hong Kong is the sheer number of other people who are in the exact same boat as me (and can commiserate).   
Crazy amazing spread at Thanksgiving dinner #3
This weekend was perhaps one of the best that I’ve had since arriving in Hong Kong.  On Saturday night, we were invited to a Thanksgiving Dinner at one of our church member’s houses.  I thought, okay, hey, just another Thanksgiving dinner, right?  No.  Not at all, in fact.  This was a Thanksgiving FEAST in a way that I have scarcely experienced in my lifetime (and every single person in my family cooks for Thanksgiving, so that is saying something).  And, there were probably 50 people there.  Or more.  It was actually an insanely joyful time.  It felt the most like my family’s Thanksgiving out of any of the ones I attended, probably because there were a million people around and I knew everyone there quite well.
And yes, I did a lot of eating
I will take a moment as an aside to say that I truly love our church members.  The parents of the students in our program are top notch in every way. They are truly good, generous, amazing people and I am so blessed by them.  Many people encouraged me to take pictures of the food to send to my parents “just so they knew I was being taken care of”, took time to sit and chat with me, ask how I’m settling in, and at the end of the night, one family detoured 15 minutes out of their way to drop me off at my apartment, though I could have walked from their house.  So, mom, know that I’m being taken care of!
Causeway Bay from Lawrence's roof





And finally, on Sunday night, on a very impromptu decision, I headed over to Causeway Bay (one metro stop away from me) to hang out with some friends from the Young Adult ministry I attend.  I was very happy when I arrived and found three of my most favorite people waiting.  Daniel, Lawrence and Kenny are all solid guys – guys who love Jesus and are just a lot of fun to hang out with.  A couple of our other friends were in and out during the night, but for the majority of the time, it was the four of us.  The night went by so quickly – before I knew it, the boys had attempted to teach me Texas Hold Em, we watched Looper, talked about everything from economics to New Zealand, watched a snowboarding documentary, and concluded with a visit to Lawrence’s rooftop.  As Kenny and I walked back to Wan Chai, I realized that I have been craving those kind of nights here.  Hong Kong is busy and crazy and I often come home from work , eat and go to sleep, literally, and repeat for days on end.  And it’s crazy!  I need to take more time to hang out and get to know people better here.
Last but not least, It’s Christmas here.  Even the grocery store is has changed from its normal music to Christmas music.  AND the happiest thing I have to report is that it is COOL here.  I woke up today, saw that it was 62 degrees outside and did a little jig in my room.  I can truly say that the weather here is the one and only thing that consistently bums me out, so this new turn in the temperatures really has me happy.  It is overcast and gray, which also reminds me of Denmark, so it’s a win-win.  I hear tomorrow we’ll even be in the fifties! I might not know what to do with myself.

-Til next time,
The Adventurer

Chinglish o' the day

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